And here comes my fav segment yet again, the one & only  –  Rockstar 101.

And as usual, I will focus on topics that are controversial, fucked up and also true. And it will all be spiced up and made interesting with a healthy dose of a rockstar attitude and thoughts. And of course, in the standard Emy Lomazzo way, some portions are taken off the net and some are written purely by me.

Well, for this latest topic, I’m gonna talk about another classified group of people, something that people rarely talked about but yet tey truly exist. Well, if you’ve wondered, when we talked about men in general, a lot is focused on The Nice Guys & The Jerks. Even I have featured them in my posts before a couple of times. On how women loved and prefer jerks and grew bored of the Nice Guys pretty fast. The term “Nice Guys Finish Last” has become quite a household term in recent years. That topic is an exhaustive one, one that has been said and written one too many times.

Well, we all know that the female version of Nice Guys are of course called Nice Girls. But what I’m gonna talk about now, is the female equivalent of The Jerks. I call them “The Heartless Bitch”.


The Heartless Bitch

According to urban dictionary (my fav humor dictionary), the term heartless bitch = The kind of girl who would rip your still beating heart from your chest cavity, impale it with forks and meat tenderizers, and then proceed to stomp on it repeatidly with a golf cleat.

Hahaha ok, it’s a little too brutal and exxagerating if you ask me. Ok, I’ll rephase it. In other words, it means that = a kick ass woman who is not afraid to speak her mind and stand up for her rights, even it means pissing a lot of people off, including her close ones.

Here comes the best part though. Majority of the women get turned off and somehow disliked Nice Guys and in fact get attracted to Jerks and are smitten by them. However it is the opposite with men. Majority of men liked and are smitten by Nice Girls and somehow disliked or get disgusted of Heartless Bitches. It’s totally the opposite.

Btw I have to draw a line and hope that you all do take note that I’m talking about in love – like – affection – date kind of terms. And not that of lust or desire. Seriously, if you ask any gender, as long as the guy is hot or good looking, the women would get hot and bothered over him.  And if you ask any men, as long as the girl is wild and willing, they’re game. Aint that true ?

Ok, back to the topic. Btw, people always tend to mix up the term Heartless Bitches and classifying them into these three groups —> Feminist, Heartless Bitches and Queen Control.

Well to me, feminists and heartless bitches sometimes come hand in hand together and sometimes they dont. A feminists may or may not be a heartless bitch and a heartless bitch may or may not be a heartless bitch. It’s a thin line really, if you ask me.

But a Queen Control and a Heartless Bitch are totally different. Understand the difference between the two. Excessively dominant women may, in fact, mean well. They may even think that they’re helping people. They honestly believe that their way is better, but due to personal insecurities or naivety, they come off as domineering.

The heartless bitch, on the other hand, is pure evil. She cares for no one but herself. She gladly tramples her way through every situation, not caring about who she hurts along the way. She’s just about getting what she wants. To make matters worse, even when her demands are met, she’s never satisfied with anything.

If you’re in the hands of such a beast, you may already suspect it. So here’s the definitive list that might prove that she’s a heartless bitch once and for all.

Top 10 Signs She’s A Heartless Bitch

10. She’s Self – Centered


To a heartless bitch, the only person in the world of any importance is herself. Others are merely warm bodies who get in the way of her selfish pursuits. She is the only person affected by a tragedy. The only feelings worth considering are hers. She is so obsessed with herself that she would rather get a manicure than visit your father in the hospital. No one should have to tolerate this kind of superiority complex — especially a good man, who tends to be her preferred victim.

9. She Criticizes Everything About You


Shaming is a common tactic they use to contol their men. They takes this to the extreme. By making you feel inadequate in every domain, she make you lose your self confidence, then rely on her to do things “right.” Nothing is good enough for her, and you are the only one, aside from her bitchy friends, who actually listens. So she nags about everything you say and do.

8. She’s Coldhearted


She is typically amoral, adhering minimally to the ethical codes of society while transgressing those that are inconvenient to her. She dismisses civility for her own gains. She’s manipulative and scheming, always looking for underhanded ways of taking advantage of people or even hurting them. And as proof that she lacks a woman’s gentle soul, she never cries or shows soft emotion.

7. She Expects To Be Treated Like A Queen


She is usually a spoiled brat who simply refuses to grow up. She was pampered and adored as a child, and typically given anything she asked for. As an adult, she still thinks she is entitled to everything. She consistently expects car rides, gifts and attention from you. She makes constant demands of people, and never listens to their requests. There is no fixing such a person, it’s programmed into her. Only by being denied several times will she begin to get a clue.

6. She Slights You In Bed


You want to know just how heartless such a woman can be? Not only does she not appreciate all the effort you put into pleasing her sexually, she also has the gall to ridicule you. But she’ll pick the oddest times to do so, such as during an unrelated argument or just randomly in passing. This could be a cruel comment about your size, stamina or technique. More grating still is the fact that she would go crazy if you were to reciprocate the slur.

5. She Treats People Like Trash


As someone who believes luxury treatment is owed to her, she has no respect for those who do things for her. She’s rude to people who work in the service industry, such as waiters and clerks, seeing them not as human beings, but as robots who exist solely to serve her. She talks at them, not to them. She has no compassion for people in need, such as the poor or the sick. “It’s their own fault,” she’ll tell herself and others. More sickening still, she’s mean to children, as they are a nuisance and can’t do anything for her. And since her existence dwells on envy, she constantly badmouths other people over trivial things.

4. She Never Pays


As she thinks that it is the duty of others to provide for her, she is a tightwad. On dates she always selects expensive restaurants and orders the atas dish and drink, but never offers to pay. She won’t pitch in for gas on trips or for food at a get together. She buys crappy gifts for others, when she can be bothered, usually expecting you to pay for them. And if you mention any of these things, she’ll accuse you of being cheap.

3. She Bosses You Around


A heartless bitch’s massive superiority complex makes her think people are born to be her servants, especially her boyfriend. As someone who spends a lot of his time with her, she uses you to do all the menial tasks that she doesn’t want to. Sometimes she’ll even boss you around for the power trip — just because she can.

2. She Embarrasses You In Public


She cares nothing about the feelings of others, not even those of the hapless sap she may be dating. In fact, she uses her man as a punching bag. Sometimes she even berates him in front of his friends, or even hers. She does this either as a power trip, to show others she can, or simply to beat a man’s self worth down to her own level. After all, misery loves company.

1.  She Flirts With Other Men


This is the most intolerable trait of a heartless bitch, which many men sadly tolerate. She’ll tease and allure other men right in front of you, never once considering how you may feel about it. There are no bounds to her search for attention and admiration. And to top it off, she’ll extract whatever feelings of jealousy she can from you by comparing you to other men.


There you have it. Quite a list huh?. Well, if you think that the list above is pure nonsense and you have never seen a woman with more than one of the signs above, then I assure you, there are. I’ve seen them before and yes, they exist.

If you ask me honestly, you dont need all these criterias and signs in their entirety to know if a woman is a heartless bitch or not. As long as she got any one of them, she probably is or turning into one real soon. If she got more than one, she’s fucked.

But people do change. For better or for worse. Let’s hope for the better. And if you think and wondered that they can’t be all that bad and that there is surely some good in everybody, well, you haven’t met everybody. Right ?

But I’m very aware that just like Jerks, Heartless Bitches are not like that once. They’re normal people. Bitter experiences with other people and most notably, with the other sex, made them that way. And honestly to tell you the truth, sometimes, I like hanging around with jerks and heartless bitches sometimes more than normal people, the nice ones. They’re more real and can be really fun actually. But as friends only, nothing more than that.

And speaking about liking and hanging out with them, in the next Rockstar 101, I will post an entry about this guy who are really into Heartless Bitches. As in he likes and prefer them over normal Nice Girls. Nope, it’s not liking them as normal friend kind of thing, but more like in general dating terms. Yeah, no kidding . .

And of course, there are also many reasons on why he prefer them. And if you read it, it kinda quite makes sense. Well, I will share and elaborate on all that as well so do stay tuned aitez.

Thank you.