The 10 Most Dangerous Mistakes You’d Probably Make With Women

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  • MISTAKE # 1 :  Being Too Much Of A “ Nice Guy ”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to “nice” guys? Of course you have. Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks” but for some reason they were never romantically interested in you.

What’s going on here? It’s actually very simple. Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful gut level attraction for them. And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman feel that powerful attraction. And being nice doesn’t make a woman choose you. I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to accept. But get over it.

  • MISTAKE # 2 :  Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like or fond of, but she’s just not that interested in him? Hmm, They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently. Right?

Well, I have news for you. You will never change how a woman “feels” when it came to attraction. Never ever. You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.

If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being “reasonable” with her? But we all do it, dont’ we?

When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work. She either like you or she don’t. Period.

  • MISTAKE # 3 :  Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we men mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”. Another horrible idea. Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them.

Don’t get me wrong here. You don’t have to treat women badly for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval.

Women actually get annoyed at men who seek their approval. Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if guys who chase her around & want her approval annoy her.

  • MISTAKE # 4 :  Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With $$$$

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn’t treat her even half as well as you did? If you’re like me previously, then you’ve had it happen a lot.

Well guess what? It’s only natural when this happens. That’s right, I said natural. When you do these things, you send a clear message –> “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection with $$ “.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over – compensation for insecurity and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, most women see this as a manipulation.

  • MISTAKE # 5 :  Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on. Attractive women are rare.

And they get a lot of attention from men. Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time. An attractive woman is probably approached several times a day by men who are interested.

This translate into dozens of times per week, and often hundreds of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a lot of men. That’s right. They have experience. They know what to expect.

One thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really really like you” after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast and can’t control themselves. Don’t do it. Lean back & relax and enjoy the moment while it lasts.

  • MISTAKE # 6 :  Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are very different from men when it comes to attraction. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this questions for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things other than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men and they’re attracted to the way a man makes them feel than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But it’s not an rocket science. And seriously, any guy could do it. You gotta have to learn on how to do this.

  • MISTAKE # 7 :  Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money or guys who are a certain height or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.But most women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet.

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, you can be one of these guys. You do not have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome.

As I said earlier, if you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot sexy woman.

  • MISTAKE # 8 :  Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to women. And guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea. Most women are never attracted to men that they can walk all over.

  • MISTAKE # 9 :  Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Type Of Situation

Now I’m going to blow your mind. A woman most of the time, knows what you’re thinking. They’ve gotten smarter now. Women are approximately 10x better than men at reading body language.

Yup, you didn’t read that wrongly. Ten fuckin’ times. I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly how to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help. And this goes for all aspects of women and dating.

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything. If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw everything up. And you know it’s true.

Therefore it’s vitally and equally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman, from the first meeting, all the way to the dating circuit or all the way to a long term relationship.

  • MISTAKE # 10 :  Not Getting Help

This is the biggest mistake of all. This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having success with women that they truly want. I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or helpless.

We don’t like to ask for help. For we all have egos. But you need to. It’s important. Don’t be shy or scared that people make fun of you or laugh at you.

They are just as cock-up. Trust me. You have to be thick skinned a lil’ bit and ask for your friends for opinion or assistance. Believe in yourself. Believe in others. Hey, I’ve been there myself.

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Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured it all out. About 6 years ago, I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t know how to approach, meet and get dates with women that I was attracted to. It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman that I wanted to ask out for quite some time, but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it.

I can still remember that night. It truly suxxx. Later on then only did I know that she liked me too but I was too slow to tackle her and another guy got her instead.

Right on the fuckin’ spot I made the decision to learn on how to be successful with women and dating. I told my NS friend and he kinda of mentored me to built up my courage towards the opposite sex.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it, more or less. And all of the mistakes above are from experience and also observation, from myself and from the people around me.

It will definitely help you one way or the other. But then again, what works for me may not work for you. But if you don’t try & give it a shot, then that’s mistake no #11!

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